My nan got diagnosed about 8 years ago now. She stayed home with carers coming in for about a year but she needs more care so we placed her into a residential care home. The difference it made was great she was happier, cleaner, well fed etc. She had been fine until 6 months ago when she had to go the hospital because her diabeties couldn't be controlled they put it down to gout. Since leaving the hospital a a few.months after the home put her on pureed food but apparently she's refusing to eat it they spoon feed her but she won't have much. She can feed herself she just refuses. She is now bed bound for the last week and can't straighten her legs of turn over. Apparently she's refusing to get out of bed. She's also bleeding alot from down below but they don't want to test as nothing they can do anyway and it would upset her I think. She can remember people still and old memorys so memory hasn't completely gone and she is able to talk. Does this sound like the end stages? They have mentioned palliative care but not said when they would start it. How long would someone last like this for ? The home is rubbish and telling us nothing at all. We are putting a complaint in and I feel they are neglecting her. No heating ever on room is 17 nan is sat in small nightie no socks. In the dark as no bulbs it's a joke.