Dear Lulu,
Sometimes it really does feel like a meaningless occupation doesn't it? All those trips and activities you provide, which are so instantly forgotten by your mother. The thing is, that you will remember them and I think that is a pretty important aspect to consider.
Good luck with the Care Home search too. I felt awfully guilty when I had to place my parents in care a few weeks ago. I don't feel that way any longer because they are getting such incredibly good care and are so happy and when I visit them we are having a really wonderful time together.
Best wishes,
Jude
Sometimes it really does feel like a meaningless occupation doesn't it? All those trips and activities you provide, which are so instantly forgotten by your mother. The thing is, that you will remember them and I think that is a pretty important aspect to consider.
Good luck with the Care Home search too. I felt awfully guilty when I had to place my parents in care a few weeks ago. I don't feel that way any longer because they are getting such incredibly good care and are so happy and when I visit them we are having a really wonderful time together.
Best wishes,
Jude