Mum has never been told outright she has Alzheimers, but memory problems.
Even with her Donepezil, sometimes she asks what they are for, and other times she knows they are for her memory.
If you ask Mum though her memory is no worse than anyone else her age, and Yes she does forget things but she remembers later.
She freely admits to forgetting things, and has said she must be away with the fairies.
Even despite being given a business card from the lady from Alzheimers Society, that picks her up, to take her to Alzheimers Activity group, she has never questioned anything else.
She even says to me how she thinks some of the people that go have Alzheimers.
A few years back when Mum was diagnosed with a slow growing type of Leukemia, and last year with early stage bowel cancer she said that she didn't want to know if anything else was wrong with her as she wouldn't hack it.
I have had to keep this in mind, but boy it is hard.