Agency problems again!Having got rid of one of the pair who were driving me mad, I find I'm getting saddled with the other too often and we always clash- personality conflict. This morning I asked her to stick to the way of turning I had recently instigated which is easier for husband. Didn't like that. Then I asked her not to hover over him while he's cleaning his teeth. So I got both barrels- I am critical of everything, nothing is ever good enough, she don't coming again , she'll do things the way she wants ans so on. Ever since she has been coming she has expected me to just step back and say nothing. But the fact remains I do the vast bulk of my husband's care myself and things change on a day to day basis so I am in a far better position to adjust daily. Things are stressful here atm, husband is not well but apparently I should not get stressed, should always think carers know best and never upset them. Knuckles wrapped. Anyway I have rung agency, told them to just give me one carer for the foreseeable future and not this woman. I just don't have the strength at this precise moment to go looking for another agency. Enough,enough,enough! If I was still a drinker I would be backing back the vodka now! I'll just go and kick the dog now instead!!!