Hi everyone,
I would welcome some advice please as I feel as though one of my husband's carers (we have two employed directly using a personal budget) is holding me to ransom.
For the third year running she has gone on holiday and given me the dates she is going and returning and then fails to return on time leaving me with care cover problems as I work full time in a demanding job. This holiday I have received two text messages from abroad saying she won't be back on time and she's sorry as her partner has extended their dates without telling her?? She will now supposedly be back one week late.
I replied to clarify the date of return, and stated that it was a little more than inconvenient, to which the response asked whether I wanted her to come back which was a surprise as we have always had a good relationship, or so I thought. It's a shame as I have always been pleased with her work and felt my husband was in safe hands so this has come as a blow and is disappointing. I am desperate to avoid my husband going into nursing care for as long as possible.
I feel there has been a breach of trust but I don't know how to find another carer at short notice if I tell her not to return. Does anyone have any suggestions as its getting hard to cope with being let down by people when I have so much to cope with anyway?
Many thanks for taking the time to read my post.
Jellyfish
I would welcome some advice please as I feel as though one of my husband's carers (we have two employed directly using a personal budget) is holding me to ransom.
For the third year running she has gone on holiday and given me the dates she is going and returning and then fails to return on time leaving me with care cover problems as I work full time in a demanding job. This holiday I have received two text messages from abroad saying she won't be back on time and she's sorry as her partner has extended their dates without telling her?? She will now supposedly be back one week late.
I replied to clarify the date of return, and stated that it was a little more than inconvenient, to which the response asked whether I wanted her to come back which was a surprise as we have always had a good relationship, or so I thought. It's a shame as I have always been pleased with her work and felt my husband was in safe hands so this has come as a blow and is disappointing. I am desperate to avoid my husband going into nursing care for as long as possible.
I feel there has been a breach of trust but I don't know how to find another carer at short notice if I tell her not to return. Does anyone have any suggestions as its getting hard to cope with being let down by people when I have so much to cope with anyway?
Many thanks for taking the time to read my post.
Jellyfish