Hi it's been a while since I've been on here, mum has had dementia for probably 10 years now, she is in a brilliant home who's care is excellent, she has been having myoclonic seizures for the past year and a half, these haven't been that major she was on epilim for a while but was taken of it when docs prescribed too much and she ended up in hospital with an overdose of meds, she has been fine for last six months but last week had a massive seizure and was resuscitated in the ambulance she was sent home the next day as I've found that hospital can't really cope with dementia patients, she then had a fall on Monday I have moved house (I am mum to 2 aged 9and 10 and married to a lovely man) on the Friday 60 miles from mum, so feeling huge guilt that I am not there for her, went to see her yesterday and she can't really speak tho she tries to, looks completely vacant and is wheelchair bound for her own safety, I am absolutely devastated at the decline in my mum, I always thought I was prepared for the inevitable but am so not, as when I saw her I couldn't stop crying I have always said it's not about me but about my mum but finding this really hard.