Dad was the same but in the end he had no choice. I couldn’t cope with it. I was eating,sleeping (or not)dementia!Counselling would be a good option. My GP gave me details of a local counselling service, but I can’t leave my husband and can’t take him with me to counselling, so I was limited. It’s not a question of paying for carers, he won’t have them and he has also refused to go to Day Centre.