I have had a 3 year struggle to try and get my husband to accept he has a problem but its just denial, excuses, denial in a constant loop. I know the advice is to ignore but I cant because we are going to need financial help soon. he is only early 60's and is earning no money. I lost my well paid job last year due to Covid and cannot continue to pay for everything for much longer. Where do I go? What do I do?