Hi everyone,
According to this site it's been virtually two years to the day since I came on here but I know it's the place to turn to when I need help.
I would to hear your thoughts/experience of how best to help my dad - sufferer of middle/late stage Picks Disease - get through the death of his son (my brother).
My brother sadly took his own life after a long battle with depression. Dad appears to have taken in what has happened and has been taken into to respite (he was due in shortly anyway) to allow my mum to focus on arrangements surrounding my brother.
The nurses told us today he had cried, which bizarre as it seems was actually quite nice because we know it meant something to him deep down.
We have a couple of queries really. Apparently he has been telling people my brother has died - although I don't think for one moment he understands what it means. Would it benefit him to visit my brother to make it 'real'? We feel he should attend the funeral but has anyone else been in this situation who can advise?
Thanks in anticipation!
Jo
According to this site it's been virtually two years to the day since I came on here but I know it's the place to turn to when I need help.
I would to hear your thoughts/experience of how best to help my dad - sufferer of middle/late stage Picks Disease - get through the death of his son (my brother).
My brother sadly took his own life after a long battle with depression. Dad appears to have taken in what has happened and has been taken into to respite (he was due in shortly anyway) to allow my mum to focus on arrangements surrounding my brother.
The nurses told us today he had cried, which bizarre as it seems was actually quite nice because we know it meant something to him deep down.
We have a couple of queries really. Apparently he has been telling people my brother has died - although I don't think for one moment he understands what it means. Would it benefit him to visit my brother to make it 'real'? We feel he should attend the funeral but has anyone else been in this situation who can advise?
Thanks in anticipation!
Jo