Do you think it might be partly guilt and partly not wanting to tread on your toes, so they keep away from the subject much as in the case of bereavement people often don't what to say other than the usual platitudes and so the bereaved person finds themselves in a way"shunned" simply because people are too embarrassed? I might be way off beam so disregard me if you will. However, I think you've got enough to worry about and don't want a family feud just now. So why not give them the benefit of the doubt?
As I say please tell me to shut up and go away if I'm out of order!
God bless,
As I say please tell me to shut up and go away if I'm out of order!
God bless,