Hi, Mum goes to a ‘club’ to help them out with the old people, that need company, and to help with jobs that need to done.
On the days when she decides she is not going, we say that’s fine, no one will force you to go, however, she has to pop there to let them know she is not going as they might think we are stopping her from going. And of course they will worry if they don’t see her, on arrival the staff are excellent and swoop her in.
Another one that works to get her to go is they are short staffed and need help - Mum to the rescue.
Good luck, it’s well worth it. X
Might need that tomorrow - or maybe all week, who knows, he has been talking negatively about going over this weekend, so may need all the various strategies! This weekend has been very trying - he has been really confused and everything he talks about is delusional / not real ......... when are we leaving (for the airport / bus / train) we need to get a move on as we are late etc. I am sure it is his way of saying 'I'm bored, lets go somewhere' but there are only so many times you can go to the supermarket, or garden centre and to be honest, it was too hot!
I think I will have a friend on standby for later in the week as if it isn't me taking him that may also be a way of getting him to go without too much hassle..........watch this space........