Hello - we as a family are reaching the end of the road in terms of how we deal with Dad !
he has vascular dementia is 88 years old but in reasonable physical shape
he lives at home with Mum ( 84 ) and her health is declining as a result of trying her best to look after Dad
he is now in late stages and is very demanding now - almost daily he leaves the house to go to his place of birth where he fully believes his mum lives ( died in 1969 ! )
he does not always accept mum is his wife and my brother myself and our daughters often are strangers to him
he has this week started to become aggressive
we think we will need emergency care for him very soon as we struggle to deal with him appropriately
CAN ANYONE suggest next steps
SS are aware of him but seem more interested in the financial wellbeing of Dad
can we get them to act ?
any advise please
he has vascular dementia is 88 years old but in reasonable physical shape
he lives at home with Mum ( 84 ) and her health is declining as a result of trying her best to look after Dad
he is now in late stages and is very demanding now - almost daily he leaves the house to go to his place of birth where he fully believes his mum lives ( died in 1969 ! )
he does not always accept mum is his wife and my brother myself and our daughters often are strangers to him
he has this week started to become aggressive
we think we will need emergency care for him very soon as we struggle to deal with him appropriately
CAN ANYONE suggest next steps
SS are aware of him but seem more interested in the financial wellbeing of Dad
can we get them to act ?
any advise please