My mom has been telling us the past few years that dad (really our step-dad) has Alzheimers. It wasnt until our last visit that we started seeing small signs of forgetfulness and confusion. So I would say it is in the mild stage. Mom says its worse than that and I don't live in her home so she would know right?
The more I speak with my mom, the more I hear things like she deserves to be happy and doesn't deserve to be home with him all day and that he isn't the same man and she doesn't deserve to not be happy...all about her. She wants to do what she wants and doesn't want to care for him.
My sister and I have suggested to move closer to us so that we could help. My sister lives about 3 hours away and I am a 10 hour drive.
I told her that she needs to have the doctor check him so that we could start the process of getting some help in the home for her and him. But now they don't want to say anything to the doctor with a fear that they may take his licesnse away.
Venting.....
The more I speak with my mom, the more I hear things like she deserves to be happy and doesn't deserve to be home with him all day and that he isn't the same man and she doesn't deserve to not be happy...all about her. She wants to do what she wants and doesn't want to care for him.
My sister and I have suggested to move closer to us so that we could help. My sister lives about 3 hours away and I am a 10 hour drive.
I told her that she needs to have the doctor check him so that we could start the process of getting some help in the home for her and him. But now they don't want to say anything to the doctor with a fear that they may take his licesnse away.
Venting.....