Miss perfect suggested getting dad up in the am and putting back at lunchtime. ( Apparently no one has been asking..They have but he has declined) I took over on the 1st and he has declined at lunchtime to get up. So I thought I would try to see. The am girls got him up at 7.30 am and sat him in the recliner. He was quite strong first thing. He has also been in bed for 7 days. He came in this morning on the Sara Stedy. BUT after 3 hours the fidgeting started. He was ready to have lunch and then back to bed.So we had lunch at 11.20. Well, I tried 3 times with him and the Sara Stedy. I knew he wouldn't be able to do it. But sometimes you have to let him find out for himself. He had to do it all himself.The recliner was at its highest. So the Stand Aid was used. He wasn't happy but I told him it was this or sit in the chair all day. Apparently, he could crawl from the chair to his bedroom. I told him we wouldn't have all this equipment if he could crawl and get himself into bed.. Quite a palaver to get him into bed with the Stand Aid and a small room. He is now happish in bed. He has realised his health has got worse.He will be in bed tomorrow .