My Dad had always driven. He was a motor mechanic all his working life and loves the freedom of just being able to hop in his car and go out. They only went to the shop or 15 miles or so to the beach for a stroll and an ice cream. He has not driven for about 6 months due to an eye operation although we had to keep reminding him he could not drive due to this. He starts his car every few days to keep it running although it’s out of petrol now. The doctor who gave the diagnosis stated not to drive. My dad had forgotten about the diagnosis/appointment by the next day. Car has already been sorn and MOT run out, insurance was due for renewal. We discussed cancelling the insurance a few times and each time he was so upset about not being able to drive. We have now cancelled it but Dad received a letter to confirm this and was upset all over again. He has called the insurance company who referred him to me. Each time he thinks of it we have to remind him that he mustn’t drive and it upsets him all over again. We discuss that he hasn’t driven for 6 months and been ok and we will take them out and drive them any they need to go. We are thinking he will forget about it shortly as we don’t want to keep reminding him. We have discussed about other family members who have given up driving as well. Is it best to remove the letter as he will maybe think about it and look for it if he remembers or should we just keep reminding him when he asks about it which seems cruel. He’s quite achy and tired and we try to get him to go out with us but he says he don’t feel up to it. Mum is a bit forgetful too, they are both in their eighties, so she probably doesn’t have the answers when he’s asking her about it. We don’t want to write it down for this reason as we don’t want Mum to have to cope with Dad upset.