Yes @yacht66 it is as if some evil mind as thought - how can we add to their misery.Having helped to look after my father-in-law and mother-in-law - both of whom had Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia- I can relate to the overwhelming feelings of tiredness and frustration shown in the film, particularly when seeking help from the Social Care system. After five years of trying to look after them in their own home, we finally had to make the difficult decision to move them into a Care Home. We were lucky in the sense that the Care Home we chose has been good. With both parents in the Care Home, their joint fees of £7.5K per month soon exhausted their cash savings. We had no choice but to put their house up for sale which because of Covid took six months to sell - during which time we were extremely worried that they would exhaust their savings before we could sell their house. In the event that this happened before we managed to sell their house, we explored with our local authority the ‘deferred payment’ facility whereby we would have in effect a loan from the local authority until such time as we sold the house as a stop gap measure. This took an inordinate amount of time and many phone calls and emails to try to sort out. Our experience was that Social Care staff didn’t know about the facility; often sent us out-dated information and were reluctant to award it. They couldn’t get their heads around the fact that it was for both my parents-in-law and insisted that they would each have to pay the £650 application fee for a deferred payment facility even though they had shared finances and obviously lived in the same house. The interest rate would have been quite high - well above the current rate of interest . So we were very relieved that in the end we didn’t have to pursue this option as we managed to sell their house just as their cash savings were almost exhausted. I recently wrote to my MP as I was so angry that yet again the Govt. had chosen to defer their plans for Social Care. He forwarded it on to the Dept of Health & Social Care and I got a very anodyne reply from Helen Whately, the Minister for Care, saying yet again ‘that the Govt. was committed to reform the social care system and that nobody needing care should be forced to sell their home to pay for it.’ No firm date as to when this may happen other than a vague statement of bringing proposals forward sometime this year.‘ Sounds familiar doesn’t it because it’s what successive Govt.s have been saying for at least the last 15 years. The social, mental and health considerations for people with dementia and their Carers is well known by those who have the misfortune to have this awful disease or be involved in their care, but the financial worries is perhaps less well documented. For those people who do not own their own house or have any other asset - it’s bad because you are totally reliant on your local authority and have virtually no choice about where you may end up. Equally however, if you do own your own house, whilst you may have more choice (within reason) you are expected to use all of your own assets and family members are put in the invidious position of having to adopt the role of actuary when trying to work out how many years of care your family member can afford. And then what- when the money runs out? The prospect of couples being split up and having to move to different care homes chosen by the local authority. As a family, we believe that we should contribute a fair amount towards our own care but this current system is completely broken. Apologies for the length of this comment but this is just a snapshot of what we have had to deal with - I could go on with all the other horrible things you have to face when trying to deal with dementia such as trying to persuade someone to wash and change their clothes etc. when any mention of this is met with belligerence, but I wanted to highlight the financial worries that you also have to deal with.