Hi All.
I would appreciate some advice and opinions about this situation.
My brother was diagnosed with terminal brain tumours in 2017 after radiaton & chemo was simply told there is nothhing else they could do. He has gradually declined, but still with us and was put into a nursing home for assessment.
I and my mum have lasting power of attourney and can see that he is lucky enough to have savings and property that can cover the nursing home costs for at least a year.
My brother was discharged from hospital to a home to "assess his needs" We were asked to a meeting that we thought was purely clinical only to meet with a council care rep who pretty much demanded sight of all my brothers bank statements and investments sighting "duty of care" as they have agreed to pay for a SRN aprox £140 pw . They want proof that he doesnt need funding.
The care home costs £800 a week and he has funds to cover it for over a year why should I have to "prove it" surely it should be between US and the carehome to deal with these fees. Speaking priately to the nursing home we have proved sufficient funds for them to approve his place but the coucil wants "fukk disclosure"
Got the distinct feeling the council rep was on a power trip with the "ambush" meeting.
I am going to ask them to "put the request in writing"
I can understand proof when you ARE asking for funding, but asking for proof you DONT seems dam odd.
Obviously I am emotional about this subject and I may be making a mountain out of a molehill but I want to protect my brothers privacy
I would be grateful for any ideas and hear your exoeriences
I would appreciate some advice and opinions about this situation.
My brother was diagnosed with terminal brain tumours in 2017 after radiaton & chemo was simply told there is nothhing else they could do. He has gradually declined, but still with us and was put into a nursing home for assessment.
I and my mum have lasting power of attourney and can see that he is lucky enough to have savings and property that can cover the nursing home costs for at least a year.
My brother was discharged from hospital to a home to "assess his needs" We were asked to a meeting that we thought was purely clinical only to meet with a council care rep who pretty much demanded sight of all my brothers bank statements and investments sighting "duty of care" as they have agreed to pay for a SRN aprox £140 pw . They want proof that he doesnt need funding.
The care home costs £800 a week and he has funds to cover it for over a year why should I have to "prove it" surely it should be between US and the carehome to deal with these fees. Speaking priately to the nursing home we have proved sufficient funds for them to approve his place but the coucil wants "fukk disclosure"
Got the distinct feeling the council rep was on a power trip with the "ambush" meeting.
I am going to ask them to "put the request in writing"
I can understand proof when you ARE asking for funding, but asking for proof you DONT seems dam odd.
Obviously I am emotional about this subject and I may be making a mountain out of a molehill but I want to protect my brothers privacy
I would be grateful for any ideas and hear your exoeriences