It maybe a sad decision but I think it is the right decision for what’s its worth. Your Mother has a care package in place and as you said she is mainly sleeping. So ‘whack’ that guilt monster and look after family including your vulnerable daughterAged Mother no longer can use the phone
So i text the overstretched carers & ask how she is... coping well!
i wish i was .... the guilt is eating away at me
Do i abandon my asthmatic daughter & take my "vulnerable person " to care for Aged Mother?
Or do i put family first this time...?
oh i know the answer ... family first this time
logically Aged mother has everything in place she requires - 4 visits a day, painrelief etc she's mostly sleeping ....
but this isn't what i'd hoped for after the trauma of Dads passing.
So sadness is my new bedfellow ...
This disease has huge impacts on all aspects of life, that this is my major worry means i am one of the lucky ones!
stay safe & healthy folks xxxxxx