My mother has vascular dementia & been in care home for 4 years.
Following a fall broke her hip & spent 3 weeks in hospital with partial repair. Consultant told me unlikely any mobility would return & she would be needing nursing care in future.
Subsequently a community nurse referred Mum to be fast tracked for CHC & her GP sent EOL bag ready in case.
Mum by now was bed bound after I witnessed 3 carers attempting to transfer for hoisting for toileting & failed & decided from then on she would be padded & completely bed bound.
So doubly incontinent & no short term memory & unable to feed herself.
Initially slept a lot & lost so much weight she is now skeletal.
She was taking sertroline & opiate patch & paracetamol.
Needing 2 hourly checks
As I visit most days have at times assisted with her feeding & have witnessed hallucinations & attacks of severe agitation & undressing herself.
I have seen & heard her screaming when being moved for washing or pad changing as she doesn’t like to be touched & is always feeling cold.
Her decline is very obvious since she was fast tracked.
Six months later I received a phone call in busy surroundings to say something about an assessment which I didn’t really understand as obviously I had not known or been present for my mother’s initial assessment.
The person mentioned a date in case I wanted to be present which was the date I had an urgent dental appointment- I was told it didn’t matter as I didn’t need to be there so unfortunately didn’t attend & really wished I had !
Then I received the documents that informed me Mums CHC would be removed as not deemed eligible even though she was much worse than when first awarded.
Care home very surprised too & said never heard of someone being declined when they were obviously needing more care than initially.
On examining the assessment form I disputed several things.
After reading Mums care plan from the home can see that some things go unrecorded that I have witnessed & some younger carers have also not passed on.
I am now at the point of an appeal face to face 2 hour meeting on Microsoft Teams & realise I have to base my evidence on how Mums needs are managed & not diagnosis etc
It has taken 5 months from the start of the appeal to reach this stage & Mum much worse now & taking lorazepam for her increasing psychotic episodes.
Feel exhausted by it all !
Following a fall broke her hip & spent 3 weeks in hospital with partial repair. Consultant told me unlikely any mobility would return & she would be needing nursing care in future.
Subsequently a community nurse referred Mum to be fast tracked for CHC & her GP sent EOL bag ready in case.
Mum by now was bed bound after I witnessed 3 carers attempting to transfer for hoisting for toileting & failed & decided from then on she would be padded & completely bed bound.
So doubly incontinent & no short term memory & unable to feed herself.
Initially slept a lot & lost so much weight she is now skeletal.
She was taking sertroline & opiate patch & paracetamol.
Needing 2 hourly checks
As I visit most days have at times assisted with her feeding & have witnessed hallucinations & attacks of severe agitation & undressing herself.
I have seen & heard her screaming when being moved for washing or pad changing as she doesn’t like to be touched & is always feeling cold.
Her decline is very obvious since she was fast tracked.
Six months later I received a phone call in busy surroundings to say something about an assessment which I didn’t really understand as obviously I had not known or been present for my mother’s initial assessment.
The person mentioned a date in case I wanted to be present which was the date I had an urgent dental appointment- I was told it didn’t matter as I didn’t need to be there so unfortunately didn’t attend & really wished I had !
Then I received the documents that informed me Mums CHC would be removed as not deemed eligible even though she was much worse than when first awarded.
Care home very surprised too & said never heard of someone being declined when they were obviously needing more care than initially.
On examining the assessment form I disputed several things.
After reading Mums care plan from the home can see that some things go unrecorded that I have witnessed & some younger carers have also not passed on.
I am now at the point of an appeal face to face 2 hour meeting on Microsoft Teams & realise I have to base my evidence on how Mums needs are managed & not diagnosis etc
It has taken 5 months from the start of the appeal to reach this stage & Mum much worse now & taking lorazepam for her increasing psychotic episodes.
Feel exhausted by it all !