Both mum and dad are in same care home, seperate rooms. Dad is settled, forgetful, but probably medication for alzeimers and depressiin has meant hes mostly cheerful and helpful. Since hes settled I take him out.
Mum seems worse on each visit. (Now diagnosed alzeimers, waiting to see if any meds help) today, non stop begging take me home, I put you through uni, im your mummy, take me home. All I can say to that is I cant care for you...here theres so many carers etc. I cant get her to talk of anything else and no distractions eg tv work. She is obsessed with pooing. (Day before some of same but but more conversing, but principally negative and complaining about absolutely everything and everybody....food..sheets...clothes...trees...noises...floor...carers are foreign....carers smile....etc today after 20 mins of her begging i thought go out for a break and she grabbed me dragging herself with me. I had to hold her or shed fall. I thought shed break my little finger! Eventually got her back in room, and really i ran away 10mins later and spent day with dad. How do I deal with the same next time. Brother said same, and hes terrified of visiting.
Mum seems worse on each visit. (Now diagnosed alzeimers, waiting to see if any meds help) today, non stop begging take me home, I put you through uni, im your mummy, take me home. All I can say to that is I cant care for you...here theres so many carers etc. I cant get her to talk of anything else and no distractions eg tv work. She is obsessed with pooing. (Day before some of same but but more conversing, but principally negative and complaining about absolutely everything and everybody....food..sheets...clothes...trees...noises...floor...carers are foreign....carers smile....etc today after 20 mins of her begging i thought go out for a break and she grabbed me dragging herself with me. I had to hold her or shed fall. I thought shed break my little finger! Eventually got her back in room, and really i ran away 10mins later and spent day with dad. How do I deal with the same next time. Brother said same, and hes terrified of visiting.