Just a rant. Feel very sorry for my husband who is incontinent, however I do find the regular changing of pull up pants tedious everyday as three or four times. His incontinence tends to annoy me too but I do try and accept the situation as know he can't help it, still find myself wishing it would stop. I find it depressing and worry about hygiene. I know its the illness but I'm not sure if he helps himself to make things easier. I do wonder if he can't be bothered to use the loo sometimes now that he wears the incontinence pants and this then makes me feel resentment towards him.
I ask him to use the loo but this becomes tedious too and doesn't always work. I also say to keep his chair dry and his bed dry but this saps my energy and not sure if I should be saying that to him.
So wish he was dry!
Reds
I ask him to use the loo but this becomes tedious too and doesn't always work. I also say to keep his chair dry and his bed dry but this saps my energy and not sure if I should be saying that to him.
So wish he was dry!
Reds