For months now I have been on the receiving end of my father's foul mouthed rants and accusations.
As most of his allegations regarding stealing from him, talking about him to other people etc etc are in the form of emails sent to me my question is this. Is it worth or would it be of any benefit to actually show him the emails sent from him?
He has dementia and Alzheimer's and at present everyone in the family are feeling like we are walking on egg shells trying to avoid any conflict, but as you can imagine the strain is getting to everyone.
It only takes one wrong word to send him ranting at everyone and then taking to his bed for a day refusing to speak to anyone. Part of me thinks he will have no knowledge of sending such hurtful emails, but on the other hand if any part of him does know what he has done then it needs to be addressed.
He seems to be capable of snapping out of these moods to suit himself. It has been known for him to snap out of a major showdown where has taken to his bed, if anyone comes to visit, act perfectly normally then carry on where he left off when the visitor has gone ie back to bed and refusing to speak
Any comments anyone has would be very welcome
As most of his allegations regarding stealing from him, talking about him to other people etc etc are in the form of emails sent to me my question is this. Is it worth or would it be of any benefit to actually show him the emails sent from him?
He has dementia and Alzheimer's and at present everyone in the family are feeling like we are walking on egg shells trying to avoid any conflict, but as you can imagine the strain is getting to everyone.
It only takes one wrong word to send him ranting at everyone and then taking to his bed for a day refusing to speak to anyone. Part of me thinks he will have no knowledge of sending such hurtful emails, but on the other hand if any part of him does know what he has done then it needs to be addressed.
He seems to be capable of snapping out of these moods to suit himself. It has been known for him to snap out of a major showdown where has taken to his bed, if anyone comes to visit, act perfectly normally then carry on where he left off when the visitor has gone ie back to bed and refusing to speak
Any comments anyone has would be very welcome