I am concerned about my mom, there is just me and no family close by. I was adopted at two and she never got married. Shes so independent and strong willed I dont know if she'll ever get help. Ive gotten her to go in for uti checkup and they did an abdominal cat scan. she claims shes perfectly ok and wont let me lift a finger. Everything i do I do it suttly for the sake of her wellbieng I have to. I took FMLA for work and am living off of a workers compensation I recently had for my Labral surgery. I work for the post office so Its helped but I dont think i'll be going back to work there, I am considering at home type of job. I feel as though i'm in a limbo state and trying to take each second and hour of day to day as it comes because if i dont do that, i'll panic. I cant get her a diagnosis Ive gotten her to sign a hippa form, she doesnt recall... Ive got full Durable POA but her trust is so maticulous and well written. I have to go through the incoherant state and thats where i am at right now. I feel like my entire world has flipped me upside down and time is moving way to fast. Anyone have any advice on how to approach this in a calming approach for both sides. Thanks in advance!
Dary
Dary