just spent possibley worst weekend of my life how do you all deal with finding a nursing for o/h when you realy don't want to loose them. told just last week by assessment centre that o/h will never come home he a danger to him self and to others. what is secret of finding first of all a bed and a decent one at that, looked at 6 yesterday no more in area and there is some realy bad ones out there and only one with beds any one got an answer . shirley