Whenever I'm trying to dress my mum, or hold her hand, touch her she gets really agitated and screams about how my hands are freezing cold. She is even worse with my dad, telling him he needs to cut his hands off, he's a freak, what is wrong with him, he's not normal etc. She gets really angry and aggressive with my father over his "cold hands," but not so much with me. It's clearly an important and triggering issue for her and obviously something I want/need to resolve. Has anybody else had this problem? We've tried wearing fleece gloves, but it's impossible to dress somebody with gloves on. We've tried warming our hands on the radiator/a mug of hot tea before touching her, but she still feels our hands are "freezing cold." She permanently feels cold anyway and has started trying to refuse to go to the toilet because the toilet seat is "freezing, bitter, awful, just terrible, cold" — she often just pees in the adult pads that she wears instead, which, obviously isn't the best or healthiest solution. Any ideas, anyone PLEASE?!!! it's clearly distressing for her, and obviously, it's also distressing for my father and me.