Hi everyone
Could Realy do with an offload and hearing from anyone who has experienced the same thing I am going through. My Mum has been diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment and this is in decline. My Mum and Dad have been married for 55 years and he looks after her the majority of time, helping her with medication, cooking and taking her out.
I visit from every Thursday until Sundays and try and to do my bit.
I have read as much as I can so I can be to be more patient and how to deal with Mum when she becomes confused and asks lots of questions.
My Dad has severe anxiety and just shouts and questions her the majority of time, and it's just not nice.
This morning he quizzed her over why she had opened her box of tablets and when she said she hadn't he became realy unpleasant which made Mum upset.
We just have such different approaches which is causing arguments with My Dad and I,and I can see upsets Mum
I suggested we go back to the memory clinic if things are getting worse but he just shouted and said I am in charge and you don't do anything without my say so
I have already discussed his behaviour with GP and Alzheimers support, but Wondered if anyone else has conflict while trying to support their dearest Mum
Sorry for rambling
Could Realy do with an offload and hearing from anyone who has experienced the same thing I am going through. My Mum has been diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment and this is in decline. My Mum and Dad have been married for 55 years and he looks after her the majority of time, helping her with medication, cooking and taking her out.
I visit from every Thursday until Sundays and try and to do my bit.
I have read as much as I can so I can be to be more patient and how to deal with Mum when she becomes confused and asks lots of questions.
My Dad has severe anxiety and just shouts and questions her the majority of time, and it's just not nice.
This morning he quizzed her over why she had opened her box of tablets and when she said she hadn't he became realy unpleasant which made Mum upset.
We just have such different approaches which is causing arguments with My Dad and I,and I can see upsets Mum
I suggested we go back to the memory clinic if things are getting worse but he just shouted and said I am in charge and you don't do anything without my say so
I have already discussed his behaviour with GP and Alzheimers support, but Wondered if anyone else has conflict while trying to support their dearest Mum
Sorry for rambling