Hi everyone,
I haven't posted in here for quite some time though I have browsed from time to time.
I have been very busy with other stuff in my life but what really kept me away was that I laid a guilt trip on myself and felt that I had been disloyal - like talking behind my husband's back as it were!! I guess a few people will get what I mean.
Things haven't changed a lot since May - the cycles are still going, we are in one at the moment which is what probably urged me to come back where I can share concerns. Four times this morning my husband asked me the same question each time not believing I had already told him. In summary he still doesn't think he should consult his GP. He is physically very fit - his voluntary work is physical and he goes to the gym at least once a week so no pretence whatsoever will persuade him he needs to attend any consultation.
However something new has crept into the mix - and I feel disloyal again saying this - but he seems to have become very 'greedy' for lack of a better word, about food. I always serve our dinners which we have in the evening (NZ fashion) nicely in seperate dishes on the table. Lately he has kept eyeing the dishes, my plate, his plate and then helping himself to a second helping before he is even halfway through the first - and my meals are generous, always plenty. If I get any choice biscuits as an occasional treat - we eat quite nutritionally I think so rarely have them - I might have one ,then a few days later decide to have another and they're gone, every one of them. It's not his manners, they are still fine, it's just this 'eyes bigger than belly' thing.
This won't sound annoying to you guys I'm sure but I happen to love Shredded Wheat which is imported to NZ - at a price, it's very expensive and a packet I make to last a long time. Husband does not like them, so he says, and has cornflakes. A couple of weeks ago I thought I would have one of my last three shredded wheat as a snack - and the box was empty. Still sitting in the cupboard, all innocently!! Well you guessed it - all eaten but box replaced rather craftily I thought in cupboard and me thinking it had 3 wheats in it! It probably sounds silly but I was really livid because he has never liked the things. It's as if he needs to eat things up before I want something else.
Ok - vent over - I feel bad again discussing this but darned if I know where else to go. Can anyone say if they have experienced this type of behaviour ? It's getting worse I think.
I haven't posted in here for quite some time though I have browsed from time to time.
I have been very busy with other stuff in my life but what really kept me away was that I laid a guilt trip on myself and felt that I had been disloyal - like talking behind my husband's back as it were!! I guess a few people will get what I mean.
Things haven't changed a lot since May - the cycles are still going, we are in one at the moment which is what probably urged me to come back where I can share concerns. Four times this morning my husband asked me the same question each time not believing I had already told him. In summary he still doesn't think he should consult his GP. He is physically very fit - his voluntary work is physical and he goes to the gym at least once a week so no pretence whatsoever will persuade him he needs to attend any consultation.
However something new has crept into the mix - and I feel disloyal again saying this - but he seems to have become very 'greedy' for lack of a better word, about food. I always serve our dinners which we have in the evening (NZ fashion) nicely in seperate dishes on the table. Lately he has kept eyeing the dishes, my plate, his plate and then helping himself to a second helping before he is even halfway through the first - and my meals are generous, always plenty. If I get any choice biscuits as an occasional treat - we eat quite nutritionally I think so rarely have them - I might have one ,then a few days later decide to have another and they're gone, every one of them. It's not his manners, they are still fine, it's just this 'eyes bigger than belly' thing.
This won't sound annoying to you guys I'm sure but I happen to love Shredded Wheat which is imported to NZ - at a price, it's very expensive and a packet I make to last a long time. Husband does not like them, so he says, and has cornflakes. A couple of weeks ago I thought I would have one of my last three shredded wheat as a snack - and the box was empty. Still sitting in the cupboard, all innocently!! Well you guessed it - all eaten but box replaced rather craftily I thought in cupboard and me thinking it had 3 wheats in it! It probably sounds silly but I was really livid because he has never liked the things. It's as if he needs to eat things up before I want something else.
Ok - vent over - I feel bad again discussing this but darned if I know where else to go. Can anyone say if they have experienced this type of behaviour ? It's getting worse I think.
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