My mum (76) was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in February. I am an only child (aged 38) and live 180 miles away. My Dad died last June and since then I have become responsible for Mum, even having to arrange Dads funeral. I am feeling very overwhelmed, I have a supportive husband and 2 kids aged 3 and 6 so my life is full on even without Mum. I ring her twice a week and visit every 4-6 weeks but that is taking it’s toll on me and my family. Mum isn’t bad enough to need to go into a home and is functioning in her own home but is unable to take responsibility for it. I have arranged a cleaner and gardener to keep on top of the general maintenance and she is ok to wash herself, prepare meals, wash clothes etc. She opens her post every day but doesn’t understand what a lot of it is and as her memory is getting worse I worry for her safety.
Does anyone have any advice about caring for someone with dementia when you live no where near them? I really need some help knowing what post has arrived etc especially if it needs actioning before I next visit. But the cleaner from Age Uk says they aren’t allowed to look at private post.
Does anyone have any advice about caring for someone with dementia when you live no where near them? I really need some help knowing what post has arrived etc especially if it needs actioning before I next visit. But the cleaner from Age Uk says they aren’t allowed to look at private post.