It seems so many people here are coping with caring for someone they love deeply. I've gone through that twice with my partner.
Now I have to care for my dad who I don't love as there's no one else. In my view he emotionally and financially abused my mother. There was never anything physical.
Is it harder caring out of guilt than love. I had always hoped he would die before Mum. I now know the poverty he claimed was rubbish. I have paid his phone bill for 20 years but he has £30k in cash whilst I have struggled with debt & depression.
Now I have to care for my dad who I don't love as there's no one else. In my view he emotionally and financially abused my mother. There was never anything physical.
Is it harder caring out of guilt than love. I had always hoped he would die before Mum. I now know the poverty he claimed was rubbish. I have paid his phone bill for 20 years but he has £30k in cash whilst I have struggled with debt & depression.