I'm a carer for my dad age 70 im 41 years old
Ive given up any hopes of going to work full time or even part time or of having children now my dad has been ill /dianosed since 2013 been on aricept the last year has been awful hes gone downhill so much hes constantly forgetting the days of the weeks etc he lives alone with his cat in a council flat which in a dreadful state i go over 3/4/5 times a week to try and clean it but he hords. Stuff brings in junk and stuff he finds has everything out of cupboard food is in odd places carrier bags everywhere clutter etc .i come out worried stressed etc ive asked him to come and live with me as i dont want him to go into a care home hes situation is absolutely terrible hes so vunrable yet still manges to wash ,cook although thats starting to go as hes burning food and cooking the same things frying all the time and hes fridge has 50 packs of cheese as he keeps thinking hes run out of cheese
.so in his council flat he sleeps in the living room we went and bought a sofa bed before the winter as hes bedroom is freezing and hes flat is old with 20 ft high ceilling and hes bedroom is a extension leading into the garden single glaze sah window cold to sleep in or
Bear for 5 min let alone sleep in the only half warm room is the living room which he eats and sleeps in hes had a buildin g company in which r employed by the council with scaffolding around with the intention of replacing the sash windows for new no double glazing though and there was talk of fitting a new door amd radiator but i found out yesterday they want to do only the windows its been a year of them coming in for nothing ive been through hell with this building company and finally made a complaint to their manager and will do one for the council.
i spoke to hes housing officer for the first time ever and told him my dads health condition the state of hes flat and the cold as well as a neighbour ramdomly harresing him whenever she feels like it or when shes drunk by banging hes ceiling with a broom my dads a old man and lives with a sweet little cat makes no noise anyway the council man said he would come out i had to beg him i wanted to find out if he can be moved to a warmer home but the useless council man did not even bother turning up i rung the council and i have his mangers email to complain ive spent all day on the phone and have been advised that i need to contact social services Which i do not want to do and i dont know why i should have to he's entitled to live in warm home they turning it around now and saying that hes not turning hes heating on etc he he is !! Im sick of him being discriminated against on a daily basis now it seems he cant even get a move or get repairs dome without them wanting the ss involved im his carer and he doesnt want any carers im so fed up
Ive given up any hopes of going to work full time or even part time or of having children now my dad has been ill /dianosed since 2013 been on aricept the last year has been awful hes gone downhill so much hes constantly forgetting the days of the weeks etc he lives alone with his cat in a council flat which in a dreadful state i go over 3/4/5 times a week to try and clean it but he hords. Stuff brings in junk and stuff he finds has everything out of cupboard food is in odd places carrier bags everywhere clutter etc .i come out worried stressed etc ive asked him to come and live with me as i dont want him to go into a care home hes situation is absolutely terrible hes so vunrable yet still manges to wash ,cook although thats starting to go as hes burning food and cooking the same things frying all the time and hes fridge has 50 packs of cheese as he keeps thinking hes run out of cheese
.so in his council flat he sleeps in the living room we went and bought a sofa bed before the winter as hes bedroom is freezing and hes flat is old with 20 ft high ceilling and hes bedroom is a extension leading into the garden single glaze sah window cold to sleep in or
Bear for 5 min let alone sleep in the only half warm room is the living room which he eats and sleeps in hes had a buildin g company in which r employed by the council with scaffolding around with the intention of replacing the sash windows for new no double glazing though and there was talk of fitting a new door amd radiator but i found out yesterday they want to do only the windows its been a year of them coming in for nothing ive been through hell with this building company and finally made a complaint to their manager and will do one for the council.
i spoke to hes housing officer for the first time ever and told him my dads health condition the state of hes flat and the cold as well as a neighbour ramdomly harresing him whenever she feels like it or when shes drunk by banging hes ceiling with a broom my dads a old man and lives with a sweet little cat makes no noise anyway the council man said he would come out i had to beg him i wanted to find out if he can be moved to a warmer home but the useless council man did not even bother turning up i rung the council and i have his mangers email to complain ive spent all day on the phone and have been advised that i need to contact social services Which i do not want to do and i dont know why i should have to he's entitled to live in warm home they turning it around now and saying that hes not turning hes heating on etc he he is !! Im sick of him being discriminated against on a daily basis now it seems he cant even get a move or get repairs dome without them wanting the ss involved im his carer and he doesnt want any carers im so fed up