Hello everyone, hope you're all well and healthy and thank you again for all the support through this time!
Everyone was very helpful on here with my questions regarding preparing a LO for an assessment to go into a care home. It went well - yay! However, we heard back from the home, and they are not willing to accept my FIL as he wouldn't knowingly consent to going in, and would disrupt the other residents.
What do we do!? We're now trying to chat to him and win him round to visiting some care homes to try and get him on board. I'm just not sure he ever will. I'm really scared my friends. My FIL is getting worse! He gets confused by time of day, day of week, etc. Forgets his children's names. Gets lost in my bf's 2 bed flat regularly. Often can't find his bed and will just be around the house naked. He has now urinated in my bf's cupboards a few times. Sometimes he forgets how to eat from a plate and knife and fork. He struggles to dress and has some mad looking outfits now. We're most concerned about the fact my bf has a combo shower and bath, which seems like a recipe for a fall. I'm terrified we will just have to wait until he says yes, I'll move into a care home, or until he ends up in hospital. Do homes ever accept residents who aren't keen? We have an LPA thank god but it still seems impossible![Frown :( :(](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Everyone was very helpful on here with my questions regarding preparing a LO for an assessment to go into a care home. It went well - yay! However, we heard back from the home, and they are not willing to accept my FIL as he wouldn't knowingly consent to going in, and would disrupt the other residents.
What do we do!? We're now trying to chat to him and win him round to visiting some care homes to try and get him on board. I'm just not sure he ever will. I'm really scared my friends. My FIL is getting worse! He gets confused by time of day, day of week, etc. Forgets his children's names. Gets lost in my bf's 2 bed flat regularly. Often can't find his bed and will just be around the house naked. He has now urinated in my bf's cupboards a few times. Sometimes he forgets how to eat from a plate and knife and fork. He struggles to dress and has some mad looking outfits now. We're most concerned about the fact my bf has a combo shower and bath, which seems like a recipe for a fall. I'm terrified we will just have to wait until he says yes, I'll move into a care home, or until he ends up in hospital. Do homes ever accept residents who aren't keen? We have an LPA thank god but it still seems impossible