Hi Everyone I'm new to this group and looking for some help and advice. My mom is on the early stages of dementia has COPD and has been struggling with confusion for a while and had decided that she wants to try respite care. We have found a home where two of her friends are and she had her day assessment on Friday she was really anxious worried and scared. Mom has barely left the house in over 4 years. She rang us several times saying she didn't like it and wanted to go home. Which we expected she was upset that they couldn't take her outside when she was feeling breathless due to her COPD . I rang the next day and was told they wouldn't be offering mom a place there they said she was anxious asking to go home and they don't think she will settle. I said of course she was its her first time going there its a big change. But she told us she loved it. I said can be bring her again for another day and see how she gets on.? I was told no they just get one chance and based on how she was its a no. I asked if someone would be calling me on Monday to discuss further or would i receive an email explaining what her needs are that you cant meet? They said no that's it sorry.
Is this normal or acceptable practise?
Thanks
Rach
Is this normal or acceptable practise?
Thanks
Rach