And the stresses mount up...Everything's ticking away, then mum gets an UTI a month ago, but refuses the antibiotics. The CH tried to get her admitted to hospital, but the A&E doctor just gave her a dose covertly then sent her back to the CH. So this poison is eating away at her, and she has become aggressive, non-compliant and too much for the CH to handle. Is this as a result of the UTI or a natural progression of the dementia - who knows? But she has such a high level of dependency now that the CH have given us notice that she has to go as they cannot cope. Unfortunately as she has been labelled aggressive, no nursing home so far feels able to take her. We are privately funded, so what happens next? SS don't want to know. What if we find nowhere suitable, surely she cannot be evicted? Would she be forced into hospital? Any advice would be very welcome.