Such heart wrenching replies, from those who have experienced the life changing illness with their loved ones. My Linda was taken into care in January and at the time I felt liberated and relieved as the situation was intolerable. However, I then discovered that 49 years of marriage changes how we live our lives, not as a single person but as a couple. Regret, guilt, sorrow, frustration and utter loneliness each day. I did not share my feelings with the children, tough enough for them as it is.
Things are getting a bit better, I have sold up and am moving back to Lincoln, where we met, got married and started the family, buying an identical house 11 doors away from where she grew up! Lovely house in the right area and rare to come up for sale. Linda is nearing the end of her life journey and we as a family are united in doing all sorts to raise a smile and visit almost each day.
We learn a lot about ourselves, through caring for others.
Good luck to you all, I hope you manage to cope and to not forget yourself as well. Life carries on and we need to remain healthy and strong for others.
Off on dog walkies, I find the 40 mins trek through the fields don't improve my footwear condition but they certainly allow me to unravel things that are swimming around in the brain box, Jack