Hi everyone. I posted a letter under the heading 'Care' a couple of days ago. I can no longer go on caring for my mother at home and I need to find her some long term accomodation. I have not got anything organised yet, but I will be doing it immediately. The question I have is how to tell her. Or not. I have said that soon, the doctor might be taking her into hospital for a couple of weeks but I don't know how to tell her she won't be coming home. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. and the most painful. I would be so grateful for any advice. Thank you, Ruth.