Gigi, I must admit I misread your first post, and assumed it was a carer from Eric's home. I was horrified. Creepy, and totally unprofessional.
Now you've explained that he's a carer from before Eric went into care, well, I'm not so sure about the unprofessional, but it's still creepy. If he wanted to see you, and to know how Eric is, he should have phoned first to sound you out. If a man I'd only known professionally turned up on my doorstep with a bottle of wine, I'd assume ulterior motives.
Knock it on the head before it gets too deep -- unless of course you're interested? Somehow I think not, otherwise you wouldn't want our advice!
Love,
Now you've explained that he's a carer from before Eric went into care, well, I'm not so sure about the unprofessional, but it's still creepy. If he wanted to see you, and to know how Eric is, he should have phoned first to sound you out. If a man I'd only known professionally turned up on my doorstep with a bottle of wine, I'd assume ulterior motives.
Knock it on the head before it gets too deep -- unless of course you're interested? Somehow I think not, otherwise you wouldn't want our advice!
Love,
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