I just thought I would vent my frustration. This is one of the only places where almost everyone else will understand.
This morning my husband asked me if I wanted him to empty the dishwasher. I told him sure. He then started yelling why did he have to do everything. Why couldn’t I put away the dishes. I told him fine I would put away the dishes. Then he started yelling he was perfectly capable of putting away the dishes and that I must not trust him to put them away himself. I told him to go ahead and put away the dishes if he wanted. And then he circled back to why did he have to do everything and why couldn’t I put away the dishes.
At this point I decided it was time to go to the grocery even though the cabinets were full of food. An hour later I brought him back a muffin and coffee and he was fine.
This morning my husband asked me if I wanted him to empty the dishwasher. I told him sure. He then started yelling why did he have to do everything. Why couldn’t I put away the dishes. I told him fine I would put away the dishes. Then he started yelling he was perfectly capable of putting away the dishes and that I must not trust him to put them away himself. I told him to go ahead and put away the dishes if he wanted. And then he circled back to why did he have to do everything and why couldn’t I put away the dishes.
At this point I decided it was time to go to the grocery even though the cabinets were full of food. An hour later I brought him back a muffin and coffee and he was fine.