How do I tell my mum, who has stage 5 dementia that my dad, her husband has just died?
She moved into the care home he was in, today. So has already had a lot of change in a short space of time. Sadly she didn't get to see him before he left us (though she visited last week and could see he wasn't well). She hasn't asked to see him since arriving but is asking about him constantly.
We're all obviously very upset and feel she has had enough disruption for today so haven't told her yet. If anyone else has experience or advice of dealing with a similar situation, that would be helpful
She moved into the care home he was in, today. So has already had a lot of change in a short space of time. Sadly she didn't get to see him before he left us (though she visited last week and could see he wasn't well). She hasn't asked to see him since arriving but is asking about him constantly.
We're all obviously very upset and feel she has had enough disruption for today so haven't told her yet. If anyone else has experience or advice of dealing with a similar situation, that would be helpful