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Discussion in 'End of life care' started by tinap, Apr 14, 2015.

  1. tinap

    tinap Registered User

    Nov 2, 2014
    41
    west midlands
    Love you forever mom.....
    My wonderful mom's suffering ended at 11.48 last night. I feel numb at the moment and still can't believe it's happened.my beautiful courageous little mom fought to the very last breath I have comfort in knowing I was there with her, she was terrified of being alone so this was my last gift to this wonderful woman who was and always will be my world.She gave me the most precious memory just before she lost her hold on this when she squeezed my hand and told I love you and will love you forever I gave her a huge hug and her I will love her forever and to not be afraid because she will always be with me. Those were the last eligible words she spoke and as meant so much. Be at peace mommy you deserve the rest night night and sweet dreams xxxxxxxx
     
  2. jan.s

    jan.s Registered User

    Sep 20, 2011
    7,352
    I am sorry to hear about your mum's passing, but she knew your love right to the end. Wishing you strength. x
     
  3. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    6,968
    Brixham Devon
    How heartbreaking but for your sake, and your Mum's, I'm glad she is now at peace. Some sufferers fight and others don't -there's no way of telling why- but when they let go and the suffering goes, we have to accept that there is no pain left for the sufferer. A different pain is felt by those left behind-and I know it hurts; however, I hope you will be able to find strength in remembering those loving words.

    Wishing you peace and strength for the times ahead.

    Love,

    Lyn T XX
     
  4. Canadian Joanne

    Canadian Joanne Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 8, 2005
    16,112
    Toronto, Canada
    I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like it was the most peaceful and serene passing.
     
  5. Roses40

    Roses40 Registered User

    Jan 25, 2015
    473
    manchester
    My condolences to you on your loss. So glad your Mums suffering has ended. Love Rose x
     
  6. katie1

    katie1 Registered User

    Aug 5, 2014
    122
    Kendal Cumbria
    Your wonderful Mum loved you, you loved her and she knew that ....right until the end, and that love will go on, that love is so strong it will never end
    She is at peace.
     
  7. Acco

    Acco Registered User

    Oct 3, 2011
    228
    So sorry to learn of your loss but very pleased you were together in those final precious moments, and that you have those last wonderful words to treasure always. My condolences to you and a wish for strength in the coming difficult days and weeks.
     
  8. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,482
    Radcliffe on Trent
    Sending my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
     
  9. WIFE

    WIFE Registered User

    May 23, 2014
    857
    WEST SUSSEX
    Thinking of you with loving thoughts as you begin your long journey coming to terms with the passing of your Mother. Take care of yourself now. WIFE
     
  10. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    59,595
    Female
    Dundee
    Sending my condolences.


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  11. Soobee

    Soobee Registered User

    Aug 22, 2009
    2,734
    South
    Also sending condolences - I hope being there with her provides some comfort to you.
     
  12. Tin

    Tin Registered User

    May 18, 2014
    4,826
    UK
    So very sorry, stay strong for the time ahead. Take care.
     
  13. tinap

    tinap Registered User

    Nov 2, 2014
    41
    west midlands
    Thank you to all of you for your kindness it's very much appreciated I'm in a very dark place at the moment I lost my dad at a very young age was the only child and it might sound mad but I feel like ean orphan right now. I feel robbed of precious years I could have had with my parents mom was 76 and my dad just 38 but I am truly grateful for the wonderful people I can call my parents and I will be forever grateful to my amazing mom who has given me comfort with her last words. God bless to all of you who have travelled and still travelling this journey xxx
     
  14. clareglen

    clareglen Registered User

    Jul 9, 2013
    325
    Cumbria
    So sorry for your loss, but she's at peace now.
     
  15. reedysue

    reedysue Registered User

    Nov 4, 2014
    4,604
    Scotland
    Sending my condolences
     
  16. CCM2013

    CCM2013 Registered User

    Feb 7, 2013
    32
    London
    I send my deepest sympathies and understanding - I lost my dad this morning and am just devastated wondering how I will ever cope in a world without my much loved dad. What a truly awful disease this is.


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  17. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,482
    Radcliffe on Trent
    Deepest sympathy to you and your family. May you find comfort and peace.
     
  18. patsy56

    patsy56 Registered User

    Jan 14, 2015
    840
    Fife Scotland
    please pass on my condolences to your family and please take care of yourself
     
  19. geum123

    geum123 Registered User

    May 20, 2009
    4,604
    I'm so very sorry. xxxx
     
  20. LeedsLass

    LeedsLass Registered User

    Oct 13, 2014
    107
    Essex
    Just read your post Tinap so comforting that you and your mum were able to communicate your love for each other as I can with my Mum. Hope you are coping x


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