I keep reading on here about people with dementia who drive their family carers up the wall yet, when faced with professionals, are able to switch immediately and present as people who don't really have any serious problems.
Now my wife would probably answer 'fine' if asked by a professional how she was, but it would very quickly become clear that this was just a stock response. As I understand it, these people are much more convincing and professionals often seem to be fooled into thinking that family members are grossly exaggerating the difficulties. At least that's what is reported on the threads and there are always other people who quickly come along with similar reports from their own experience.
This is clearly incredibly frustrating for carers who are trying to get support.
But are we missing something here? If people with dementia are capable of this change in presentation, what else might they be capable of? Could they possibly be persuaded to try and 'switch' more often, to the benefit of their carers, and themselves?
I can anticipate the response: It's just a random result of their brains being damaged. But that doesn't really begin to explain the phenomenon does it?
Now my wife would probably answer 'fine' if asked by a professional how she was, but it would very quickly become clear that this was just a stock response. As I understand it, these people are much more convincing and professionals often seem to be fooled into thinking that family members are grossly exaggerating the difficulties. At least that's what is reported on the threads and there are always other people who quickly come along with similar reports from their own experience.
This is clearly incredibly frustrating for carers who are trying to get support.
But are we missing something here? If people with dementia are capable of this change in presentation, what else might they be capable of? Could they possibly be persuaded to try and 'switch' more often, to the benefit of their carers, and themselves?
I can anticipate the response: It's just a random result of their brains being damaged. But that doesn't really begin to explain the phenomenon does it?