Dont know if I made the sentence of the tittle right, Im dealing with it. I mean, if any one here "have" a person affected who lives in a messy house. I went to visit my mother today, and its always the same, the kitchen is a mess, the floor is all dirty, black on the corneres, so dirty, its hard to clean because all the things around the kitchen, boxes, rags, bottles. The kitchen table is always full, its not a good place. And now my mother been looking in google for "home made" clenars to clean wood furniture, and the furniture looks worse, more dirty, and now she talking about mix vegetable oil with coffee (seems google says that), and its clear its going to look bad, this is just tiny thing, just a "color" thing, but the floor looks so dirty, alld the time crumbles everywhere, cigaretes. Any other deals with this while going to visit ? Please dont give me advice or any of that, or things i should do, im just looking for other people who deals with the same only, just to find some vent/relief talking about this problem.