Another day at the fun factory

[tonebear]

It started normally and then i got THAT phone call. My sons wife (Both in thier late 50's) told me that she had come home from work to find her husband (my stepson) dead at his computor ( his normal work place) he had apparently a heart attack. In trying to calm her down and not brake down myself, my wife sensed there was something wrong so had to brake it to her as best i could. There, of course, followed lots of question i couldn't answer. Lots of confusion and shock. Then my daughter arrived and by the time she left, it had all calmed down and my wife had forgotten about it. ( sometime this disease has it's good side) Only hope it doesn;t suddenly come back. Another couple of hours like this morning would do for me!!
Don't you just love this life. It decides that one thing ( because one is coping)is not enough so throw something else at you. Cxxxxt i'm tied.

 

[sdmhred]

oh gosh @tonebear
i am so sorry to read this post 😢😢😢😢
There’s no words to give……we’re all here when you need to write ….

 

[Neveradullday!]

That's awful, @tonebear
What a shock
Life is so unfair - I'm so sorry

 

[Grannie G]

What a tragedy @tonebear and what a shock. I`m so sorry.

 

[jugglingmum]

I'm so sorry. No words. Such a shock.

I know you're piglet has forgotten but you need to let yourself grieve. Hugs.

 

[leny connery]

Oh my dear. What a tragedy to bear,there is no words that can adequately help. Just sending you love and prayers for super human strength and big hugs.

 

[tonebear]

thanks all. Been a looong day.

 

[Cardinal]

Oh my gosh. That’s terrible. I’m so sorry. Am I understanding this correct? Is this your wife’s son? I can’t imagine how difficult this is for you.

 

[JaxG]

I am so sorry, that is devastating for you all. As others have said, there are no words with such a tragedy. xxx

 

[Sarasa]

I am so sorry to hear of the death of your stepson @tonebear. Thinking of you all.

 

[SeaSwallow]

@tonebear I am so sorry to read about the loss of your stepson. Such a shock for you all. Sending you heartfelt condolences.

 

[SkyeD]

So sorry to hear your sad news @tonebear . Sending my condolences to you and your family.
S x

 

[scotlass]

What a tragedy I'm so sorry to hear this x

 

[tonebear]

Thankyou everyone. For myself i feel so very sorry for his wife. The poor girl found him, how she coped with the shock of that lord only knows.

 

[Chizz]

Condolences to you and all the family.
It seems too young to go. Yes, poor widow, So sorry.

Without meaning to be insensitive, I feel that a sudden heart attack is a rather nice way to go - no long pain and suffering - even though its an enormous shock for everyone else.
My father died like that, but he was 87,
I feel that a PWD or similar long term terminal degenerative illness, is a like a living death. I just wish (and I know I shouldn't) it wouldn't go on and on and on.

 

[Izzy]

I’m so sorry for your loss @tonebear. What an absolute tragedy. Sending condolences to you and your family.

 

[tonebear]

Condolences to you and all the family.
It seems too young to go. Yes, poor widow, So sorry.

Without meaning to be insensitive, I feel that a sudden heart attack is a rather nice way to go - no long pain and suffering - even though its an enormous shock for everyone else.
My father died like that, but he was 87,
I feel that a PWD or similar long term terminal degenerative illness, is a like a living death. I just wish (and I know I shouldn't) it wouldn't go on and on and on.

My feeling entirety, I only hope i go the same way when my time comes.

 

[sapphire turner]

Sending love tonebear xx