Before my Dad went into the care home he has this annoying mate, who had lots of money out of him. The mate said he paid it all back at the time but I know he didnt. The mate in the past just used my Dad really. When Dad went into the care home before Dads house was given up there was this burglary, although we think he was involved we cant prove it. Then Dads mate cooked something there and left his stuff for us to clear up. I have had a few goes at him.
I asked the home if they can stop him visiting dad cause he is not any good for him, but they cant. On top now the man is just going to the home to get free meals every day. Even dads key worker has told me this, she said the problem is we have to be nice to people visitors even if they are doing wrong. She has warned him though.
Every day this man goes there early to get free breakfasts and then been returning later for free dinner as well. He kept a low profile from me for a while cause he knows how I feel about him.
When I went there today he was sitting there and he got up and left when he saw us.
This man just gets whatever he can for nothing. He even tried to get smokes from Dad at the care home but they said No. He does not work and lost his previous job got the sack for lazyness and sleeping on the job.
I thought that we were to see the end of this man now but as long as he can keep getting freebies, he will stick around.
Maybe anyone here got any thoughts of this.
I asked the home if they can stop him visiting dad cause he is not any good for him, but they cant. On top now the man is just going to the home to get free meals every day. Even dads key worker has told me this, she said the problem is we have to be nice to people visitors even if they are doing wrong. She has warned him though.
Every day this man goes there early to get free breakfasts and then been returning later for free dinner as well. He kept a low profile from me for a while cause he knows how I feel about him.
When I went there today he was sitting there and he got up and left when he saw us.
This man just gets whatever he can for nothing. He even tried to get smokes from Dad at the care home but they said No. He does not work and lost his previous job got the sack for lazyness and sleeping on the job.
I thought that we were to see the end of this man now but as long as he can keep getting freebies, he will stick around.
Maybe anyone here got any thoughts of this.