I am so upset but I dont know if my feelings are justified. Any input would be gratefully received! Mum went into respite in January into a shared room, ended up staying there and ever since I have been trying to get her own room. Her room mate sadly just passed away and my mum was upset. Even though she doesnt have a memory she still has feelings. The home has been totally resistant to giving her her own room saying that it would confuse her too much. Another lady also passed away last week and another lady was taken into hospital after a collapse. When I ask about a single room they say she is in and out of her room so much especially in the afternoons that it would totally confuse her. I understand this and said I would go and spend more time with her to get her settled. Still no joy. I asked my sister to go today and speak with the manager as I am always asking. She has been told they are moving another lady into my mum's room for end of life care. I am so appalled. One of our reasons for wanting mum to have her own room is that we have absolutely no privacy for any visits and are constantly interrupted by other residents butting in to our conversations and one especially refers to my mum as my son. My sister says it doesnt matter as the other lady will just be in bed all the time. I said that it will not be very nice for my mum and rules out any privacy or entering into the room if the lady is in bed all the time, especially if she has visitors. Also my mum will be subject to end of life care in her room and another room mate dying. I am so angry and upset that everyone else seems to think this is ok. I feel like going in and bringing her home with me although I know I wouldnt be able to cope. I would consider moving her into another home but she is very settled there. Mum is partyly LA funded and I truly believe this is a finance issue although at the best interest meeting a single room was always on the cards and budgeted for. I just dont know what to do. Maybe I am overreacting but I am truly truly sad. My mum deserves better!