I wonder if anyone else feels scared. I have been watching my mum disappear to Alzheimer's for the past 8 years. She is now in the later stages and about to go into residential care. What a grim experience looking at homes is! When will people catch up to the 21st century and modernise and brighten up rooms, and hallways. Stop having chairs placed around the edge of the room with all occupants sitting in silence. It would not be hard to change this but yet home after home it was the same.This is a whole different subject!
My real question is, throughout my mums diagnosis and progression and now moving her to a home, I keep seeing myself and cant help but think this will be me in 10-maybe if I am lucky 20 years time. I see myself having no memory, struggling with dressing, eating and sleeping. Distressed and frustrated when I cant remember people or how to express how I feel.
What a depressing future. How do you try and stop imagining this? How do you remain with what you have in the present, after all any one of us could die tomorrow. I try to remain rationale but equally think about what I need to ensure my kids know now, how do I live my life knowing what may be around the corner?
Any words of wisdom would be most welcome.
Thank you
My real question is, throughout my mums diagnosis and progression and now moving her to a home, I keep seeing myself and cant help but think this will be me in 10-maybe if I am lucky 20 years time. I see myself having no memory, struggling with dressing, eating and sleeping. Distressed and frustrated when I cant remember people or how to express how I feel.
What a depressing future. How do you try and stop imagining this? How do you remain with what you have in the present, after all any one of us could die tomorrow. I try to remain rationale but equally think about what I need to ensure my kids know now, how do I live my life knowing what may be around the corner?
Any words of wisdom would be most welcome.
Thank you