1. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    since bob has been on aricept
    his aggresion is getting worse
    i am keeping a diary as told plus hylusiations
    nurse says it might be meication
    weekend went shopping some one pushed in bob went mad there was real anger in his eyes and a lot of verble from him i calmed him down next day sunday next door have new lodgers bob gets upset if they park on our front he has told them a few times but they do it at night at the week end came down sunday morning to go out he lost the plot kicked car on our front nearly knocked the door in next door i then drove to garden centre i said you were right they should not park there but let me have a word with sarah owner of house the angry way is getting us no where
    he agreed but the agression is getting worse towards me as well i have never been worried about towards me but love bel x
     
  2. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    68,661
    Kent
    Dear Bel,
    Please make an appointment with Bob`s doctor as soon as possible.
    Love xx
     
  3. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    bobs doctor

    you are right sylvi
    i will thanks
    bel x
     
  4. hendy

    hendy Registered User

    Feb 20, 2008
    506
    West Yorkshire
    #4 hendy, Feb 26, 2008
    Last edited: Feb 26, 2008
    Hi Bel
    Sorry to hear about your worries about Bob's behaviour. Grannie G is right - please talk to Bob's doctor if you can. I know its hard but don't let things get any worse and look after yourself. This disease changes people and its not their fault, but you shouldn't have to suffer any more. let us know how you get on.
    kind regards
    hendy
     
  5. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    student nurse phoned today

    had to cancel appointment for bob tommorrow
    with sarah main nurse that brings bobs aricept
    cos she says they have some one who really needs help emergancy
    fine re booked
    i am trying too hard to cope by my self
    and i should not
    but i know there are a lot more people out there worse off than me that need the sevices more than me
    and they are limmited recorces
    but please can they tell me whats going on comunication would be good
    love bel x
     
  6. lesmisralbles

    lesmisralbles Account Closed

    Nov 23, 2007
    5,543
    Make the appointment

    Please see your doctor, please.
    Barb X
     
  7. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    9,519
    Frinton-on-Sea
    Dear bel.
    Please stop being so understanding........
    Yes, I know that you understand, but............"You need help too"

    Please get back on to your Nurse, and tell them exactly that.

    Understanding is all very well, but you can stand at the back of the queue forever.

    Let us know how you get on. Take care, love Con.
     
  8. Margarita

    Margarita Registered User

    Feb 17, 2006
    10,824
    london
    #8 Margarita, Mar 5, 2008
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2008

    My mother mood are also changing , seeing that nurse has canceled can you not ring doctors and ask for an
    emergency appointment in the morning to see doctor , telling the receptionist about his mood changes,nurse has canceled. she may be able to fit you in
    tomorrow at some point .

    did nurse say when she able to bring medication to you ?

    PS


    That so true , as if you don't stress the urgency that your not copying as you need more support (be it with more medication or what ever ) just cover it up they just let you get on with it . it happen to me in the past .
     
  9. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    i tried getting my strong head on today

    phoned top consultants secratry
    no answer left message
    bob re agression
    visiting phscologist says not up to gp you need to see
    top consultant as gp might give him drugs like valium

    and it might make it worse
    bob and i dont want him zonked out
    she said its devil and deep blue sea
    how long can you cope with his anger i said i can hang on a bit longer rather than have him drugged up
    love bel x
     
  10. hendy

    hendy Registered User

    Feb 20, 2008
    506
    West Yorkshire
    Hi Bel
    Sorry only just caught up with your thread. You've done well to go to the 'top'. Keep on til you get some action. Its so hard to make a fuss when we all know there's people worse off, but you know you need some help with this, and Bob needs help too.
    take care of yourself
    hendy
     
  11. Margarita

    Margarita Registered User

    Feb 17, 2006
    10,824
    london
    I know what you mean , as I am holding off medication that may Zonk my mother out ( even thought doctor did not offer my mother any ) till the 18 march when she see a specialist .

    Wishing you all the best in getting the support you want .
     

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