agression

bel

Registered User
Apr 26, 2006
757
coventry
since bob has been on aricept
his aggresion is getting worse
i am keeping a diary as told plus hylusiations
nurse says it might be meication
weekend went shopping some one pushed in bob went mad there was real anger in his eyes and a lot of verble from him i calmed him down next day sunday next door have new lodgers bob gets upset if they park on our front he has told them a few times but they do it at night at the week end came down sunday morning to go out he lost the plot kicked car on our front nearly knocked the door in next door i then drove to garden centre i said you were right they should not park there but let me have a word with sarah owner of house the angry way is getting us no where
he agreed but the agression is getting worse towards me as well i have never been worried about towards me but love bel x
 

hendy

Registered User
Feb 20, 2008
506
West Yorkshire
Hi Bel
Sorry to hear about your worries about Bob's behaviour. Grannie G is right - please talk to Bob's doctor if you can. I know its hard but don't let things get any worse and look after yourself. This disease changes people and its not their fault, but you shouldn't have to suffer any more. let us know how you get on.
kind regards
hendy
 
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bel

Registered User
Apr 26, 2006
757
coventry
student nurse phoned today

had to cancel appointment for bob tommorrow
with sarah main nurse that brings bobs aricept
cos she says they have some one who really needs help emergancy
fine re booked
i am trying too hard to cope by my self
and i should not
but i know there are a lot more people out there worse off than me that need the sevices more than me
and they are limmited recorces
but please can they tell me whats going on comunication would be good
love bel x
 

connie

Registered User
Mar 7, 2004
9,519
Frinton-on-Sea
Dear bel.
Please stop being so understanding........
i am trying too hard to cope by my self
and i should not
but i know there are a lot more people out there worse off than me that need the sevices more than me
and they are limmited recorces
Yes, I know that you understand, but............"You need help too"

Please get back on to your Nurse, and tell them exactly that.

Understanding is all very well, but you can stand at the back of the queue forever.

Let us know how you get on. Take care, love Con.
 

Margarita

Registered User
Feb 17, 2006
10,824
london
This disease changes people and its not their fault, but you shouldn't have to suffer any more.

My mother mood are also changing , seeing that nurse has canceled can you not ring doctors and ask for an
emergency appointment in the morning to see doctor , telling the receptionist about his mood changes,nurse has canceled. she may be able to fit you in
tomorrow at some point .

did nurse say when she able to bring medication to you ?

PS

Understanding is all very well, but you can stand at the back of the queue forever.

That so true , as if you don't stress the urgency that your not copying as you need more support (be it with more medication or what ever ) just cover it up they just let you get on with it . it happen to me in the past .
 
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bel

Registered User
Apr 26, 2006
757
coventry
i tried getting my strong head on today

phoned top consultants secratry
no answer left message
bob re agression
visiting phscologist says not up to gp you need to see
top consultant as gp might give him drugs like valium

and it might make it worse
bob and i dont want him zonked out
she said its devil and deep blue sea
how long can you cope with his anger i said i can hang on a bit longer rather than have him drugged up
love bel x
 

hendy

Registered User
Feb 20, 2008
506
West Yorkshire
Hi Bel
Sorry only just caught up with your thread. You've done well to go to the 'top'. Keep on til you get some action. Its so hard to make a fuss when we all know there's people worse off, but you know you need some help with this, and Bob needs help too.
take care of yourself
hendy
 

Margarita

Registered User
Feb 17, 2006
10,824
london
visiting phscologist says not up to gp you need to see
top consultant as gp might give him drugs like valium

and it might make it worse
bob and i dont want him zonked out
I know what you mean , as I am holding off medication that may Zonk my mother out ( even thought doctor did not offer my mother any ) till the 18 march when she see a specialist .

Wishing you all the best in getting the support you want .