When carers come into our homes we are so very vulnerable, emotionally and physically
That is so true , it gone really out of hand with my carer , at the beginning she use to shower mum , so that took around an hour . then mum could not get into bath lift , so has been having wash down . so it took half hour and I sigh for 1 hour .
Time go on she doing it in 15 min , me not timing her anyway as she turning up at 6 am or 7 am when she was originally book in for 8 am .
her excuse is she got 6 clients to fit in
I have different carer at weekend , who really rushes mum , so stone face .
when I ask other carer about her , she tell me she from a tribe in Nigeria , they like that .
Then sunday she turn up at 11 am , so mum says she does not want her to wash her , so I send her home . so I wash mum , then find they a funny small coming from mum privet parts , they not washing or drying mum skin between her privet parts , it was red raw .
so on Monday I tell carer, who says its down to mum wearing pads, so give her the benefit of the doubt
Then on Tuesday I open door to stone face carer . Me surprised shock to see her because she only work weekend . she just walk right past me . as nothing wrong so I ask her, is it Saturday ? she says other carer has gone to doctor , so she doing it to day and she in a rush , that was it !
I told her she got an hour to do my mother and that why my mother red raw down below, because of all the rushing , so if she can't do it , shall get someone that can.
well she was not so stone face at me now . she went on to explain why she thinks mum red down below . she says mum needs shower or bed bath as she can't reach that area , from mum just standing up .
Carer from weekend , says she went to doctor because her blood pursuer high , so is taking next week of .
I seem to be bending backwards in accommodating them, because of this --
-- I had a lovely young carer Last year she was 33 years old her Nigerian name in English was Remember, she never turn up one day so got a phone call from agencies asking if she turn up , as she had not turn up for her other jobs
Next day got a phone call saying that they had break down the door of her room , she was found dead , death unexplained .