We have just found out that my grandma has dementia. Although we had our suspicions it has still come as a great shock. It is made doubly hard in that my grandad is suffering from lung cancer and has rapidly gone down hill over the last week or so. Grandma still recognises us all but has other memory problems and odd behaviour. Not really sure why i've posted - just wanted some general advice in how to cope with it all and what to expect. Thanks in advance.