children and visits
depends on the day, the children, the experience.
My father is very challenging but he is softer and more compliant with children. However if i felt a child was in any way threatened, frightened or upset by his behaviour i would consider not taking them. I think at 9 your youngster has the right to make an informed decision. If neither party gains any pleasure from the visit it is not fulfilling any important role in my opinion.
depends on the day, the children, the experience.
My father is very challenging but he is softer and more compliant with children. However if i felt a child was in any way threatened, frightened or upset by his behaviour i would consider not taking them. I think at 9 your youngster has the right to make an informed decision. If neither party gains any pleasure from the visit it is not fulfilling any important role in my opinion.