I have worked with dementia sufferers for over 10years, but always in a nursing home setting. For the past year and a half I have been working as a carer in the community and one of the ladies I visit (a 30min call) I am getting quite concerned about. She has dementia and her short term memory is terrible! We can sit and chat about her childhood for ages, but ask her about something that happened 5minutes ago and shes completely forgotton.
My issue is that she is becoming very anxious and depressed about the fact that her 3 daughters haven't been in touch or visited.....this of course isn't the case, its just she forgets that she has seen/heard from them. It was her birthday at the weekend and all the girls came down and took her out for a birthday meal....a day later and she has no recollection of this and becomes quite distressed when reminded because she cannot remember at all!
She spends all her day obsessing and getting cross that her daughters have abandoned her (all girls live away) and because of this, the 3 calls she has a day (all 30mins) are spent sat with her trying to explain and reason with her....we have tried everything from distraction to steering the conversation away from her daughters, but she is so fixated on this issue, its causing her to feel very low and depressed.
Ii will be speaking to my manager regarding medication to ease her agitation, but does anyone have any advice or suggestions as to how to help prompt her memory or ease her anxiety?
My issue is that she is becoming very anxious and depressed about the fact that her 3 daughters haven't been in touch or visited.....this of course isn't the case, its just she forgets that she has seen/heard from them. It was her birthday at the weekend and all the girls came down and took her out for a birthday meal....a day later and she has no recollection of this and becomes quite distressed when reminded because she cannot remember at all!
She spends all her day obsessing and getting cross that her daughters have abandoned her (all girls live away) and because of this, the 3 calls she has a day (all 30mins) are spent sat with her trying to explain and reason with her....we have tried everything from distraction to steering the conversation away from her daughters, but she is so fixated on this issue, its causing her to feel very low and depressed.
Ii will be speaking to my manager regarding medication to ease her agitation, but does anyone have any advice or suggestions as to how to help prompt her memory or ease her anxiety?